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Amy Lynn Reese's avatar

I've spent a lot of time telling myself "I HAVE TO DO THE THING RIGHT NOW". I don't think Anyone has Ever told me explicitly to NOT do the thing right now. I almost cried when I read it, and I don't even know if it was possible for me before. I always lived under this "sword of Damocles" where I was emotionally or mentally abdicating responsibilities, which made me this horrible, negligent, lazy, unaccountable person. But I see that this was kind of wrong-headed, and really just not serving me. It was also creating such persistent anxiety that was always there and never went away. Those were Good words, Amanda, thank you for telling us not to do the thing.

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Claudia Rapp's avatar

I'm very much with Trapped. One moment, I want to kiss a stranger, the next I want to never leave the flat again. Love & patience & strength & joy to all of you!

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